Participants are working as a community and will begin to work on their vision.

Today’s Suggested Activities

• Leadership Characteristics’ Activity
• Three Styles of Communication
• Community Service Project
• Person First Language
• Fear in the Hat

Materials needed for day

• Room to Move Around
• Word of the Day Definitions
• Pens/Pencils
• Small Pieces of Paper
• Hat
• Large Sheets of Paper

Handouts

• Word of the Day Definitions
• Passive, Assertive, and Aggressive
• Person First Language

Week Two: Day Two

Leadership Characteristics’ Activity

Time: 90 minutes

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Purpose: The purpose of this activity is to boost the participants’ confidence in their own ability as advocates and organizers. We can give them praise and compliments regularly but it can be just as, if not more meaningful, coming from a peer.

Directions: Have all of the participants choose a partner. Once everyone is paired up, read through all of the leadership characteristics and the definitions together. By now, the participants should be familiar with the terms since you will have used them throughout the sessions.

After reading through the characteristics, ask the participants to go over them once more on their own and choose one characteristic that stands out in their minds when they think of their partner. Give them about 10 minutes to choose their characteristic.

Ask the participants to form two lines. Each partner should be facing each other. This part of the activity is an exercise in following directions. Going down the line, each participant should share with everyone the characteristic that they feel their partner possesses. They also should explain how that characteristic will contribute to the community service project.

As a large group, discuss the following questions (notes to the facilitator are in italic)

• Did you ever think of yourself as having this characteristic?
• This question might prompt them to look at themselves in a different light.

• Now that your partner said he/she sees this in you, do you think you can see it in yourself, too?
• Sometimes it takes other people seeing or saying positive things to validate us. Participants with disabilities who have low self-esteem are no different.

• Did this activity require you to really examine your partner’s good qualities in a way you had not done before? If so, do you now have more respect for this person?
• Sometimes we really do not pay attention to what people have to offer. We overlook people’s good qualities for various reasons. This question will help the participants to acknowledge the importance of recognizing what everyone has to offer.

• Do you feel differently about yourself and your abilities as a future leader?
• Again, this is another question designed to encourage them to consider their endless potential to lead within our movement.

• Are there any characteristics we talked about today that you think you would like to work on to become a better leader?
• We all have leadership characteristics we can improve upon. If anyone says, “no, ” then remind him/her they can work on “Humility.”