Theme 2. Trends in positive psychology. Psychological challenges of the modern development of production.

Be in trend. Trend success engulfed our country. The popularity of social networks on the one hand due to the development of modern technologies, on the other hand, with the inexorable clearly underlines how far we are from each other. Social pain - a modern term, along with chronic fatigue syndrome. The meaning of life - a philosophical question, or perhaps the main thread, which will allow us not a loss, once the success of the trend. The modern trend of calls to be successful everywhere and in everything. How are you? The best! All OK! Bouncy American standard. However, in psychology there is a rule, when we say all, that means either someone specifically, a person with a name and surname, or none. The best one we doing, what I still want to be successful at what wave to stay? And where in this time is my happiness? Trend success engulfed our country. Now, in order to be effective should be successful and do the opposite. This angers the older generation, it would seem, the world turned " upside down", first success, and then will be added to the case. This explains the immense popularity of social networks. It is very important how much you have " friends" how many " likes" on your photos or posts. And as if all of us are extremely active and creative daring, creating a world around. Is it so? Another term modernity - " social pain". How do you think he means?

Social pain - is loneliness. This is when you " in contact" 500 friends, and you have no one to drink tea, watch the sunrise or just talk about the rainy night that, about this. You are self-sufficient, successful, modern man and makes you - the best. How far we have gone from men of past centuries in terms of mental organization?

" Unshed tears become diseased organs" - Avicenna. Psychosomatics (practice on the relationship of mental state of a person with his bodily well-being) are now - the trend in psychology. Cry now, not fashionable, but only if you do it not at the training " How to become a star in three days", where you can even correct. However, with somatic illnesses did not become smaller, but just the opposite. Diagnoses " younger", a heart attack in 25 years, why not. Cancer, depression, another fashionable term " chronic fatigue syndrome". From what we so tired?

Trend successfully fills the deep meaning of our lives, and that is what was important to the human soul has always, at all times. That's what we like, and the current generation of our ancestors. Of course, the meaning of life in different periods and for each person, an individual only. However, when it is not, we will suffer the same; sick, tired, lost in the " ways of the Lord, " drowning in religion, in the rush of pleasure and endless consumption. It makes no sense, and nothing but the trend - it neither eat nor hide it from the cold.

Life crisis. " If you ran out of the dawn, then began the sunset" - Seneca. There is such a thing, " the existential crisis of existence." This is a terrible human anxiety before the realization that life itself has no meaning. There is life and the meaning it has only one, just maybe, the other makes no sense. A person without a sense can not live, it was plagued by fears, loneliness, emotional emptiness. The more we fill ourselves every day, so we live. The trend of success - a great costume for a million euros, but if there is nothing for him, life is empty, tedious, and any pleasure quickly get used to.

The main task of psychotherapy - to help people accept the reality, any problem or symptom is a failure to adapt the shape. And the output of the key state of loneliness is obvious: the distance between you and other have a distance between you and yourself. The more I am far away from you: your feelings, emotions, feelings, the more I'm alone. Having decided at one point that it is impossible to influence the course of events, people, and in fact it ceases to affect it. If you want to achieve in this life is not only success, but also to feel happiness, can not be simple. Modern man is doomed to be complicated. No trend can not, with one trend - bitterly.

Modern excuse - " I do not have time." Everyone does not have the time, but everyone on a miscellaneous. Do not time we lack, we are sorely lacking in the lives. Eternal running in circles chasing the trend. " Regret for wasted time is unreasonable, given over to the people, it does not always help them to use it wisely residue" Jean de La Bruyè re.

To succeed, you must be a " mirror of its time", grab the tail of the modern trend.. A way to happiness - this is the way to him. The task for " aerobatics" - take the time to reflect it in their social activities and find a foothold within you consciously make meaning in their lives. See the trends of today and create for itself its own meaning.

In conclusion, for the pleasure of the perception of the parable:

" Three people were working on the mountain and dragged stones. A passing stranger asked what they were doing. One said: " I carry the stones." Another said: " I earn my living." And the third said: " I am building a temple."